#LifeLessons
Asking Quality & Better Questions that could potentially transform your life - “ WHY” - “Why am I even alive what is my life purpose.”
We often dream of an imaginary lifestyle of how life should be and will turn out, and end up being disappointed when the dream does not become a reality.
What if -if you could start with your WHY? - This is what will define you through all the good and bad times, and still give you strength to bounce back up during times adversity
#Lessonslearnt
1) I asked myself “why me” when my dad suddenly passed and I had to taken the longest flight of my life ever
2) I asked myself “why me,” when my youngest sister suddenly became ill and my gut wrenching intuition told me to stop everything and fly yet again on the longest flight of my life. To only be with her for one day and half before she would collapse into a comma and eventually passage
3) Before this I asked myself why of all the losses I had suffered in between of family members from cousins (who were like brothers), to an aunt, uncles and then recently granddad and most recently grandma
3) I asked myself why me when I was first diagnosed with an under active thyroid over 10 years ago when I was at the peak of my life and most active. So much I refused to believe what my GP told me, that I decided to continue running each day to hung onto me physically and mental even though - physically o was losing the strength I once had
4) I asked myself why last year when I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia after three years of suffering from numerous undiagnosed symptoms.
All the questions I ask myself, my reason also ended up being why not me? What was so special about me to be exempted for adversities in life
I asked myself why me again - and my answer would always be what is the lesson here I am ended to learn. If I choose to close my heart ❣ I will miss the greatest lessons in life
What is my life purpose that is greater and beyond all the pain and grief I had suffered in my lifetime
#LessonsLearnt again
My heart had allowed something new in.
I learnt to appreciate how short and very precious life was
I began to feel grateful for the souls that had been introduced in my life to guide me - to enable me to experience life experiences with them through happiness, laughter, pain and loss
I began to appreciate that I had be chosen to have this great opportunity for the souls laid to rest, to be part of their lives; what an honour that was to be a daughter, an older sister, a cousin/sister, niece and a granddaughter
I continued to question my purpose:
As life was short and I started to realise I could not take it for granted now I was alive and the souls did not have the opportunity to continue living
I could not take life for granted and sleep through it.
There had to be a greater purpose for me in this lifetime beyond the 9-5pm and just existing day to day without making any meaningful impact in this lifetime
Although I was connected to working and being involved in charitable organisation most of my life (through choice) I knew there was still more I could do out there in the world 🌍
#LifeLessons again
I cried through my grief and heartache ❣ to the point time stood still - days, months, a year past when I hugged my sofa which became my comfort. I felt a huge disconnected from the world and the people who were going through their daily lives
I cried for the heartache and heart space that would and could never be feel again
I cried for the loss and death of the old me.
Only to realise I was still here. I had always been here and never lost me and soul. Only that my soul had learnt many lessons which it was processing, accepting in order to make peace with itself
I am now at peace with the new me, even though I continue to wake up at times feeling and believing like I am still the person I was once before the loss and ailments I have suffered to only realise -the actual reality
My ideal lifestyle was only a dream, I had imagined to walk pain free. This new reality is teaching me much more valuable lessons anyone could ever learn in life
Appreciate each and everyday you spend with your loved one’s for tomorrow is not promised
See the value in life and what you as a soul can contribute it to it by being fully awake rather than just existing just for the sake of existing
Ask yourself the most challenging questions and shut down the beautiful answers that tell you lies ( to remain as you by not challenging yourself)
If you are like me and currently suffering from a chronic pain condition and an Invisible Illness know that your soul never left, you are still you. Choose to stay awake through all the happy and painful experiences of current being - and take from it what you can as life lessons which can help another soul through their new journey
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Chiko💜💜💜
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